Written by Alexandra Chauran. Copyright(c) 2008, all rights reserved.
It is almost impossible to tell, just by looking at him or her, what a person will be like between the sheets! Sometimes a person with an amazing body can be a dud in bed. Likewise, those who you might have overlooked can be quite skilled lovers when given the chance! Just as astrology can help match lovers based on emotional compatibility, there are also good sexual matches that can be made in heaven!
Not everybody is capable of the same level of intimacy. In our society, men often are championed for wanting there to be some mystery about a woman with whom he may be sharing a sexual relationship, while women are encouraged to long for a deep emotional connection during sex. Even gay and lesbian couples are not exempt from needing to carefully analyze a partner's ability and desire for physical and emotional closeness, and whether that person thinks they are one and the same!
Start by knowing yourself and your own personal needs for sex and intimacy. If you're lucky, you can use your lover's birth date, place and time to examine his or her natal chart. With your astrologer, examine any planets that are influencing your fifth house, which will show your creativity in bed. Your eighth house will show your need and capacity for loyalty. If your idea of intimacy requires a level of friendship for you to feel comfortable and accepted, peek at your eleventh house to see what sorts of planets influence the sort of people who are drawn to spend time with you, and the company you seek!
Are you involved in a relationship that you are hoping will become sexual, but are not sure if the delay you're noticing is natural or a sign of disinterest? Your partner's sun sign can be easily determined by his or her birthday and can be used as a rough guide to see whether things are likely to move fast or slow with such a personality type!
Aries can tend to be very sexually impulsive, and a romantic moment can easily let one thing lead to another! Taurus, however, is more methodical, often slow to heat up, but then a very intense lover! A Gemini might get bored if things stay the same for too long, so surprise and spontaneity might go a long way towards more sexual connections! Cancer can get clingy after a sexual encounter, so be aware of that and willing to match up with somebody who can take that kind of intimacy. Leos are very generous lovers, but their pride can easily be hurt, so sexual encounters should be approached gently! Virgos can be shy but dependable! Libras value equality in a sexual relationship, so make sure you give back as much as you get! A Scorpio can be a very passionate lover, but that passion can easily turn to obsession if you slight one! Sagittarius can be game for interesting sexual encounters, and are more likely to be willing to talk openly about his or her needs. A Capricorn can sometimes be a bit more conservative, and may need to be wined and dined before a sexual encounter can be approached! Aquarius is an opinionated lover, but a good friend as well. Pisces are imaginative and adaptable lovers that can be given to wild fantasies!
Armed with your natal chart and information about your lover or potential sweetie, you can follow the horoscopes for a sign of when to take the lead, and when to play hard to get! Keep your eye for Mars landing in either of your signs, indicating that person having the odds in their favor to make a move! The activities of Venus can also show a willingness to be open to intimate encounters! The sun indicates powerful male energy and the moon represents female sensitivity, so since they move from the day to day, it is important to watch their cycles and see how they affect your love life.
If you move too quickly, you can ruin what could have been a beautiful relationship filled with intimacy. But if you move too slowly, you could miss the change of a lifetime for dynamite sex!
Get your hands on your horoscopes before your lover to maximize your chances of seeing stars in bed!