How To Be Lucky In Love
Written by Alexandra Chauran. Copyright(c) 2009, all rights reserved.
Have you ever felt that a love was absolutely meant to be and then found out that you were utterly wrong? How strange it felt to have something so certain be so incorrect? It wasn't meant to be if he or she is now half a world away from you physically or emotionally! If this is the nature of destiny, how can you be sure that a break-up or a relationship is meant to be or meant not to be? Luckily, astrology can be your guide to love and relationships. Just as the moon dances around the earth and the planets circle the sun, so the same relationships and devotion can be reflected in your own life! With the advent of the Internet, the wisdom of astrology has become more accessible for use in everyday life and in everyday love!
You may have already been using astrology in the form of sun sign horoscopes in your local newspaper or other publications, but the power of astrology can be taken much farther! Your sun sign horoscopes, though they may be very accurate, are not very precise and specific because they do not take into account the twelve houses, based on the time and location of your birth. In order for you or your astrologer to take a look at your fifth house, the domain of sex and love affairs, or your seventh and eighth houses for relationships and commitments, you'll have to get your natal chart done! Begin by consulting a qualified astrologer, who will draw up your natal cart either by hand or by a computer. Either way is just as helpful, as the true measure of his or her skills will be in the interpretation of your natal chart!
Be prepared with your time of birth. A natal chart is a snap shot of the sky at the instant you were born! If you are currently in a relationship, make sure that you collect your partner's date of birth, time and location to give to your astrologer! A natal chart can help you establish a relationship with somebody with which you are compatible. Not only are some sun signs more easily paired with others, but the actions of your planets at the moment of your birth can map out your deepest values, which will need to be honored by your partner. If you've already found your match, a natal chart can help find out the strengths and weaknesses of your pairing and help understand what influences your relationship so that you can find out what makes both of you shine like stars in the bedroom or in married life!
Your natal chart is a gold mine of information, but it won't be all that you need in order to proceed with the rest of your love life! Check your sun sign horoscope frequently and make an appointment with your astrologer before making any big decisions such as a first date, a marriage, or the decision to start trying for a child. The sun represents men and the moon represents women, and their positions change on a daily and weekly basis! It can be as simple as planning for a clean break-up during a the waning moon phase, or it can be as complex as understanding what planets are influencing Venus to see how your love is being affected.
Of course you can still go against your stars and do whatever you want. You are in control of your own destiny. Your horoscope isn't about telling you what is not possible, or what is the only way of doing things. Rather, try to think of it as the way to make your relationship more "lucky!" You can make a plan to take the path of least resistance to the love outcomes that you truly want. The more that you work in accordance with your horoscope, the less you will find yourself butting heads in your relationship and the more your partner will marvel at your incredible timing! So, the next time that your love life seems to be going in the completely opposite direction to that you actually want, check your horoscope! Chances are that a clearer way to approach love is in the stars for you!