Asking The Right Questions
Written by Alexandra Chauran. Copyright(c) 2008, PsychicRx, all rights reserved. Originally published on 6/20/2008 in PsyBlog.
"What should I be thinking about as I try to rekindle a relationship with my old flame?" I, and my fellow psychics, breathe a sigh of relief when we see or hear a question that is thoughtfully phrased by the client! We'll gladly take that question over a "will I get my ex back" any day! Not only does it mean the client is ready to actually use our readings to plan his or her destiny, but it confirms that the client isn't simply hunting around for somebody who will tell anyone what he or she wants to hear!
So how can you be the dream client? You'll go a long way towards forming a good question if you can decide what you want before you call. Instead of asking "will I..." or "will it..." you can decide what you want to have in your future and then have your reader help you plan a road map to get you there! What should I do in order to...?" That way you won't have us on the other end worrying that you're hoping everything is just going to either fall in your lap, or never happen at all! We all know that's not the way things work! When you phrase the question in a way that shows that you're willing to put the work into your life to bring about your dreams, well you're half-way there!
And what if you don't know what you want? Hey, it's great that you're being honest with yourself! But just because you haven't made a decision yet doesn't mean somebody else is going to make it for you? Not knowing what will happen is no excuse to bust out the "will it happen" questions! Instead, you can use the reader to help you with the process itself . "What should I be thinking about as I make my decision about...?" Or, conversely, you could use the psychic to help play out a scenario to make your decision. "What would I need to be concerned with if I chose this course of action?" Exploring scenarios and having your reader help decide which scenario is best is better than imagining we live in a world where things happen because of somebody else's decisions besides our own!